有些事情发生了却没有留下可察觉的痕迹，没有被谈论或记录下来，尽管如果说后续事件漠不关心地继续下去，就好像这些事情从未发生过一样，那是非常错误的。
There are things that happen and leave no discernible trace, are not spoken or written of, though it would be very wrong to say that subsequent events go on indifferently, all the same, as though such things had never been.
在我早期的职业生涯中，我一直在问：我如何治疗、治愈或改变这个人？现在我会这样表述这个问题：我如何提供一种关系，让这个人可以利用它来实现自己的个人成长？
上天安排我福分浅薄，我就培养高尚道德去迎接它；上天安排我身体劳顿，我就修炼精神安逸去弥补它；上天安排我遭遇艰危，我就努力实现政治理想去沟通它；上天安排我境况困苦，我就力求精神愉快去疏导它。