I quite agree with them that it is not an ennobling experience. Poverty entails fear, and stress, and sometimes depression; it means a thousand petty humiliations and hardships. Climbing out of poverty by your own efforts, that is indeed something on which to pride yourself, but poverty itself is romanticised only by fools.

我们需要成为解决方案的一部分，而不是问题的一部分。

When we fail to set boundaries and hold people accountable, we feel used and mistreated.

我们可以轻易地原谅一个孩子怕黑；但成人怕光是人生的真正悲哀。