待小人不难于严，而难于不恶；待君子不难于恭，而难于有礼。
对待小人态度严厉，不困难，困难的是让自己不去憎恨厌恶他们；对待君子恭敬谦逊，不困难，困难的是让自己始终以礼相待他们。
I think it's important to have a sense of humor about yourself.
不要等待完美的时刻，抓住这一刻并让它变得完美。
The tongue is like a sharp knife, killing without drawing blood. Words from a skilled person can cause greater harm than a warrior’s weapon.
