花繁柳密处拨得开,方见手段;风狂雨骤时立得定,才是脚跟。
面对各种诱惑而能拒之于外,这才是聪明之举;面对艰难坎坷而能站得稳,这才是意志坚定。
人一定要懂得“礼”之后才能产生恭敬之心,产生恭敬之心以后才能有所尊敬,有所礼让。
There are things that happen and leave no discernible trace, are not spoken or written of, though it would be very wrong to say that subsequent events go on indifferently, all the same, as though such things had never been.
真正的爱情之星火是一种微妙的东西。它会像火那样发出捉摸不定的光芒,跳跃着飞向快乐的仙境。可是它也会像熔炉里的火焰一样熊熊燃烧,而妒忌往往为爱情之火的迸发提供了燃料。
And when you’re down in the hole, when that moment comes, it’s really okay to feel bad for a little while. Give yourself time to mourn what you think you may have lost but then here’s the key, learn from every mistake because every experience, encounter, and particularly your mistakes are there to teach you and force you into being more who you are. And then figure out what is the next right move.
城市是各种力量碰撞的战场,而建筑是这些冲突的调解者。