恐惧只是我们对自己讲的故事。
And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. Psychoanalysis has been drumming home this message for about 80 years. No one's quite listening hard enough, but I very much believe it's true.
释义:只要尽心尽力去做事,成功与否听凭上天安排。万事存在太多的变化和未知,没有人能把控一切,所以人只能尽自己能力做好,自己力所能及的事。