我们在大大小小的事情上束缚自己,缺乏自信,不敢举手,在该向前一步时却退缩。
We hold ourselves back in ways both big and small, by lacking self-confidence, by not raising our hands, and by pulling back when we should be leaning in.
众人的好恶容易察明,但自身的缺点好恶则不易发现。