如果你想领导别人,你必须先学会跟随。
The more one judges, the less one loves.
No need to hurry. No need to sparkle. No need to be anybody but oneself.
I'm not a whisper, I'm a shout.
这是《鬼吹灯》系列的核心概念,意指在古墓中点燃蜡烛以判断是否有鬼魂存在。