所有老人共同的大秘密是，在七八十年里，你真的没有改变。你的身体变了，但你一点都没变。
The great secret that all old people share is that you really haven't changed in seventy or eighty years. Your body changes, but you don't change at all.
Life is like a journey, don't worry about the destination, but enjoy the scenery along the way and the mood of seeing it.
伐矜(jīn今)：自大自夸。举事：办事。自大自夸，喜欢独断专行，是办事情的祸根。
樊迟问仁，孔子说：“对人慈爱。”问智，孔子说：“对人了解。”樊迟不理解。孔子说：“以正压邪，能使邪者正。”