I don’t let the past hold me back, I let it teach me.
我不让过去拖累我,我让它教导我。
That's exhilarating if you're doing well, and very crushing if you're not. It leads, in the worst cases -- in the analysis of a sociologist like Emil Durkheim -- it leads to increased rates of suicide. There are more suicides in developed, individualistic countries than in any other part of the world. And some of the reason for that is that people take what happens to them extremely personally -- they own their success, but they also own their failure.
生活不是关于你不能做什么,而是关于你能做什么。
最终,我们都在寻找一个属于我们的地方。