I think that the best thing that you can do is to be true to yourself and to be honest with yourself.
艺术家必须是不可能之物的梦想家。
我不会为任何人收敛我的光芒。
In the end, I've found that it doesn't really matter who you marry. If you like them at the beginning, you probably won't like them at the end. And if you start off hating them, there's always the chance you'll end up thinking they're all right.