界限定义了我们。它们定义了什么是“我”,什么不是“我”。界限显示了我结束的地方和他人开始的地方,引导我拥有一种所有权感。
Boundaries define us. They define what is me and what is not me. A boundary shows me where I end and someone else begins, leading me to a sense of ownership.
美好生活在于每天在生活的主要领域中运用你的标志性优势来获得幸福。
你的黄金门票是能够从他人的角度看问题。这个视角转变使得你能够真心地对别人感同身受。它也让你能说服他人,它也是伟大设计的关键。掌握通过他人的眼睛看世界的视角,将会为你打开许多门。
"Formal methods are not a silver bullet, but they are an essential tool in the quest for reliable systems."
The mind is a system of organs of computation, designed by natural selection to solve the kinds of problems our ancestors faced in their foraging way of life.
The soul is healed by being with children.
Today is cruel, tomorrow is crueler, and the day after tomorrow is beautiful. But most people will die tomorrow night.