You may not be able to alter reality, but you can alter your attitude towards it, and this, paradoxically, alters reality.
你可能无法改变现实,但你可以改变你对现实的态度,而这,矛盾的是,会改变现实。
Character is not something that you are born with and can't change, like your fingerprints. It's something you weren't born with and must take responsibility for forming.
尽管在金钱往来上,欠债是理应受到谴责的,但奇怪的是,处理得当的债务却是友谊和爱情的重要支柱。 《爱上浪漫》