Small changes in context can lead to big changes in behavior.
The only thing you sometimes have control over is perspective. You don't have control over your situation. But you have a choice about how you view it.
根本不稳固必然会央及枝叶。行为不守信必然会损害声誉。
爱,始于自我欺骗,终于欺骗他人,这就是所谓的浪漫。