对待小人态度严厉,不困难,困难的是让自己不去憎恨厌恶他们;对待君子恭敬谦逊,不困难,困难的是让自己始终以礼相待他们。
When someone really hears you without passing judgment on you, without trying to take responsibility for you, without trying to mold you, it feels damn good!