我们听到的言语是我们没有听到的东西的指示。它是一种必要的回避,一种暴力、狡猾、痛苦或嘲笑的烟幕,使对方保持在它的位置。
The speech we hear is an indication of that which we don't hear. It is a necessary avoidance, a violent, sly, anguished or mocking smokescreen which keeps the other in its place.
决心不过是记忆的奴隶,它会根据你的记忆随意更改。
We change our behavior when the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the pain of changing.