“让一步风平浪静，退一步海阔天空”，让步不一定是懦弱，退步不一定是退缩，换个方向，寻求更为有利的支点才是最重要的。宽以待人，得饶人处且饶人，当你包容别人的时候，其实也就放下了自己的成见，就会少了一份纠结，这何尝不是另一种福分呢？利人才会真正利己，人都是相互的。

I don’t like to be told who I am.

The universe is not only queerer than we suppose, but queerer than we can suppose.

给我贞洁和节制，但不要立刻。

"The world is indeed full of peril, and in it there are many dark places; but still there is much that is fair, and though in all lands love is now mingled with grief, it grows perhaps the greater."