容易
In all things — except love — start with the exit strategy. Prepare for the ending. Almost anything is easier to get into than out of.
The universe is conspiring behind your back to make you a success. This will be much easier to do if you embrace this pronoia.
When someone is nasty， rude， hateful， or mean with you， pretend they have a disease. That makes it easier to have empathy toward them which can soften the conflict.