失去某人，最糟糕的莫过于，他近在身旁，却犹如远在天边。

Those who do not have power over the story that dominates their lives, the power to retell it, rethink it, deconstruct it, joke about it, and change it as they change, truly are powerless, because they cannot think new thoughts.

Strive for excellence, not mediocrity.