每个人的生命结局都是一样的。彼此的差异只在于是怎样的生又是怎样的死这些细节上面。
When I got to 40 or so... I had the sense when I looked back over my life I would actually see a mess of decisions, a few of which I had thought about, some of which I had sort of stumbled on, and many that I had no control over whatsoever.