在科学中,最令人兴奋的短语不是“我发现了!”,而是“这有点奇怪...”
意志不坚强的,智慧一定不高;说话不讲信用的,行动也不会果敢;拥有财富而不肯分给人的,不值得和他交友;守道不坚定,阅历事物不广博,辨别是非不清楚的,也不值得和他交游。
And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. Psychoanalysis has been drumming home this message for about 80 years. No one's quite listening hard enough, but I very much believe it's true.
儿童的一切教育都必须遵循一个原则,即帮助孩子身心自然的发展。
你不需要气象员来知道风往哪个方向吹。