子曰:“唯女子与小人为难养也。近之则不逊,远之则怨。”
孔子说:“唯女子与小人难以对付。太亲近了,他们就会失礼;太疏远了,他们就会怨恨。”
Acting is not about being someone different. It's finding the similarity in what is apparently different, then finding myself in there.
如果你想过上幸福的生活,把它与目标绑定,而不是与人或物绑定。