When I stand before thee at the day's end thou shalt see my scars and know that I had my wounds and also my healing.
孔子说:“有益的爱好有三种,有害的爱好有三种。爱好礼乐、爱好称赞别人的优点,爱好广结善友,有益处;爱好放荡、爱好闲逛、爱好大吃大喝,有害处。”
No man really knows about other human beings. The best he can do is to suppose that they are like himself.