I'm trying my hardest, but I can't have everything. I can't have the looks, the rapping ability, the scoring, and the free throws.

The most dangerous phrase in the language is, 'We've always done it this way.'

要信守承诺。

生命的意义在于发现你的天赋。生命的目的是把它奉献出去。

君子的为人之道是：外表暗淡无色而美德日见彰显。小人的为人之道是：外表色彩鲜明，但渐渐地消失了。君子的为人之道还在于：外表素淡而不使人厌恶，简朴而有文采，温和而又有条理，知道远是从近开始的，知道教化别人从自己做起，知道隐微的东西会逐渐显露，这样就进入圣人的美德中了。

Rather than steering your life to avoid surprises， aim directly for them.