The only thing I can control is my effort and my attitude.
The fact remains that getting people right is not what living is all about anyway. It's getting them wrong that is living, getting them wrong and wrong and wrong and then, on careful reconsideration, getting them wrong again.
如果你和你的竞争对手做的事情本质上是一样的，你可能不会太成功。
译文：认识到过去所做的事是错误的，那么说明学问在日渐进步；能看到别人的言行有可取之处，说明德行操守在日渐提高。赏析：一个人的思想若要变得成熟，肯定要读书学习，更要学习别人的长处和优点。人愚昧无知不可怕，最怕愚昧无知还不自知，还不懂得学习和改变。
If you ask me what I came into this life to do， I will tell you: I came to live out loud.