"In the fields of observation chance favors only the prepared mind."
在观察的领域里，机遇只青睐有准备的头脑。
The story you believe is the one that will control you.
The best leaders are those who empower others to lead.
"To give is to receive, to love is to be loved, and to live is to let live."
If you can't understand why someone is doing something, look at the consequences of their actions, whatever they might be, and then infer the motivations from their consequences.