When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself.
当你评判别人时,你不是在定义他们,而是在定义自己。
And that's a lot of the reason why we care so much about our careers and indeed start caring so much about material goods. You know, we're often told that we live in very materialistic times, that we're all greedy people. I don't think we are particularly materialistic. I think we live in a society which has simply pegged certain emotional rewards to the acquisition of material goods. It's not the material goods we want;
The best way to predict the future is to create it.