爱是能力和意愿，让你关心的人成为他们自己选择的样子，而不坚持他们必须满足你。
Love is the ability and willingness to allow those that you care for to be what they choose for themselves without any insistence that they satisfy you.
在一个不断试图让你成为别人的世界里，做你自己是最大的成就。
The strongest is never strong enough to be always the master， unless he transforms strength into right， and obedience into duty.
The melancholy science from which I make this offering to my friend relates to a region that from time immemorial was regarded as the true field of philosophy, but which, since the latter's conversion into method, has lapsed into intellectual neglect, sententious whimsy, and finally oblivion.