独处的能力就是爱的能力。这对你来说可能看起来矛盾,但事实并非如此。这是一个存在的真理:只有那些能够独处的人才有能力去爱,去分享,去深入另一个人的最深处——而不占有对方,不依赖对方,不将对方物化,不对对方上瘾。
The ability to be alone is the ability to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it’s not. It is an existential truth: only those who can be alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of another human being—without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.
The biggest adventure you can take is to live the life of your dreams.
Gather ye rosebuds while ye may,Old time is still a-flying,And this same flower that smiles today,Tomorrow will be dying.
最好的决策是结合数据和直觉做出的。
思想之流,意识之流,总是在流动。