In my early professional years I was asking the question: How can I treat, or cure, or change this person? Now I would phrase the question in this way: How can I provide a relationship which this person may use for his own personal growth?
在我早期的职业生涯中，我一直在问：我如何治疗、治愈或改变这个人？现在我会这样表述这个问题：我如何提供一种关系，让这个人可以利用它来实现自己的个人成长？
Strengthen the female mind by enlarging it, and there will be an end to blind obedience.
The truth is always something that is told, not something that is known.
Anarchy is the permissive cause of war; it creates an environment in which states have to rely on self-help to ensure their survival.