And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. Psychoanalysis has been drumming home this message for about 80 years. No one's quite listening hard enough, but I very much believe it's true.

我不会放弃，我会升级。

"Acting is not about being someone different. It's finding the similarity in what is apparently different, then finding myself in there."

让自己振作起来的最好方式是尝试让别人振作起来。