Rule of 3 in conversation. To get to the real reason, ask a person to go deeper than what they just said. Then again, and once more. The third time’s answer is close to the truth.
沟通“三”原则,要找到真相,让别人比他们之前说的更深一些,一次、两次、三次的重复这个过程,第三次你就接近真相了。
眼睛看百步以内的东西,尚且没法看得一清二楚,而要把自己看见的就认为是实际有的,没有看见的就认为是没有的,这样的话天下所没有的东西,可就多了。
"Biography is not just about what happened, but about what it meant."