The ability to be alone is the ability to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it's not. It is an existential truth: only those who can be alone are able to love, to share, to go into the deepest core of another human being—without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.

The only way to do great work is to love what you do.

  有些书应该只是尝试一下，有些应该被吸收，而有极少数书应该被咀嚼和消化。

“让一步风平浪静，退一步海阔天空”，让步不一定是懦弱，退步不一定是退缩，换个方向，寻求更为有利的支点才是最重要的。宽以待人，得饶人处且饶人，当你包容别人的时候，其实也就放下了自己的成见，就会少了一份纠结，这何尝不是另一种福分呢？利人才会真正利己，人都是相互的。