It's sort of sad when you think of a kid like that going through life without a sense of humor...

Love yourself first and everything else falls into line.

仓库里没有储备的谷物，不可以应付凶饥之年；兵库不准备兵器，没有足够的实力，即使站在正义的一方也无法征讨无义之人，实力是维护正义的强有力的保障；城郭防守不完全，则不能守护自己；没有居安思危的心理，不可应付突发事件。

You can't start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one.