And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. Psychoanalysis has been drumming home this message for about 80 years. No one's quite listening hard enough, but I very much believe it's true.
常常，我们对一个成功人生的想象，不是来自我们自己，而是来自他人。如果你是个男人，你会以父亲做榜样，如果你是个女人，你会以母亲做榜样，精神分析已经重复说了80年，但很少有人真正听进去。但我的确相信这件事。
To write is to breathe, and to breathe is to live.
I'm not perfect, but I'm always me.
The opposite of a correct statement is a false statement. But the opposite of a profound truth may well be another profound truth.
By nature, all things are common.
Architecture is not about imposing, it is about listening.
心理学家必须描述，而非解释。