And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. Psychoanalysis has been drumming home this message for about 80 years. No one's quite listening hard enough, but I very much believe it's true.
常常,我们对一个成功人生的想象,不是来自我们自己,而是来自他人。如果你是个男人,你会以父亲做榜样,如果你是个女人,你会以母亲做榜样,精神分析已经重复说了80年,但很少有人真正听进去。但我的确相信这件事。
In no way can sport be considered a luxury object.
我不喜欢欠下人情,这样会压逼著我,令我觉得自己是个奴隶。我宁愿自己处理自己的事,不用依靠别人,能够完全独立。
"Fill your paper with the breathings of your heart."
我喜欢表演。那是我感觉最有活力的时刻。
科学的旅程不仅仅是关于目的地,而是我们到达那里的路径。
The quest for a unified theory of physics is one of the greatest intellectual adventures of our time.
书是一份你可以反复打开的礼物。
I must have flowers, always, and always.
I can never be safe; I always try and go against the grain. As soon as I accomplish one thing, I just set a higher goal. That's how I've gotten to where I am.