And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. Psychoanalysis has been drumming home this message for about 80 years. No one's quite listening hard enough, but I very much believe it's true.
常常,我们对一个成功人生的想象,不是来自我们自己,而是来自他人。如果你是个男人,你会以父亲做榜样,如果你是个女人,你会以母亲做榜样,精神分析已经重复说了80年,但很少有人真正听进去。但我的确相信这件事。
把每一天当作生命的最后一天来活。
True disruption comes from understanding consumer needs before they articulate them.
Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.
赏析:通过忘记脚、忘记腰、忘记是非纠纷来说明内心的舒适和自在,强调了要放下杂念和纷争,保持内心的平静。
我的艺术就是我的反抗。
密码学的目标是使破解系统的成本超过受保护信息的价值。