And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. Psychoanalysis has been drumming home this message for about 80 years. No one's quite listening hard enough, but I very much believe it's true.
常常，我们对一个成功人生的想象，不是来自我们自己，而是来自他人。如果你是个男人，你会以父亲做榜样，如果你是个女人，你会以母亲做榜样，精神分析已经重复说了80年，但很少有人真正听进去。但我的确相信这件事。
La palabra es el puente entre el pasado y el futuro.
Every perception is a symphony of the nervous system.
The task of psychology is to map the structure of consciousness.
解放自己是一回事，拥有那个解放了的自我则是另一回事。
I’m drawn to the idea of art as a shared experience.
个人是唯一的现实。
解决困难要在它还容易解决的时候下手，消除罪恶要在它还处于微小的时候进行。不要夸耀自己的善行以免助长祸乱，执法时不要手持刑具却犹豫不决。
每一座建筑都应对其环境作出回应。
The public doesn't know what it wants until you give it to them.