And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. Psychoanalysis has been drumming home this message for about 80 years. No one's quite listening hard enough, but I very much believe it's true.
常常,我们对一个成功人生的想象,不是来自我们自己,而是来自他人。如果你是个男人,你会以父亲做榜样,如果你是个女人,你会以母亲做榜样,精神分析已经重复说了80年,但很少有人真正听进去。但我的确相信这件事。
决定你高度的不是你的能力,而是你的态度。
The world is a book, and those who do not travel read only one page.
The future of agriculture lies in the harmonious coexistence of technology and nature. We must use wisdom to protect every piece of green.
A novel is a mirror walking down a road.
解读:绝对的自由会让拥有更多资源、权力的强者肆意妄为,他们会凭借优势去压榨弱势群体,抢占利益。所以,用道德、法律来框定自由边界,是守护社会公平、保障弱者权益的必需。