"That's the thing about pain. It demands to be felt."
这就是痛苦的特性,它要求被感受到。
When someone is nasty, rude, hateful, or mean with you, pretend they have a disease. That makes it easier to have empathy toward them which can soften the conflict.
Make decisions when you are ready, not under pressure. Others will always push you to make a decision for their own purposes, internal politics, or some other external need. But you can almost always say, “I need a little more time to think about this. I’ll get back to you.” This tactic is very effective at defusing even the most difficult and uncomfortable situations.
"La literatura nos permite viajar a otros mundos, a otras vidas, a otras realidades."