Writing is a way of connecting with others.
不了解儿子就看和儿子交往的朋友,就清楚了;不了解君主就看看君主身边的人,就明白了。
What's terrible is to pretend that second-rate is first-rate. To pretend that you don't need love when you do; or you like your work when you know quite well you're capable of better.