【译文】 司马牛忧伤地说：“别人都有兄弟，唯独我没有。”子夏说：“我听说过：‘死生有命，富贵在天’。君子敬业而不犯错误，对人恭敬而有礼。四海之内，皆兄弟。君子担心什么没有兄弟？”
The only thing that makes life possible is permanent, intolerable uncertainty; not knowing what comes next.
有时候你必须迷失自己，才能找到真正的自己。
You'll never be able to please everybody, so you might as well be yourself.
