读书的时候不要只想作者怎么看,想想你自己怎么看。
When you read,don't just consider what the author thinks,consider what you think.
Let me explain. I think it would be very unusual for anyone here, or anyone watching, to be envious of the Queen of England. Even though she is much richer than any of you are, and she's got a very large house, the reason why we don't envy her is because she's too weird.
出自先秦《荀子·非相》。君子自己贤能而对他人的疲弱无能也能容忍,自己机智而对他人的愚蠢也可容忍,自己知识广博而对他人的浅薄也能予以宽容,自己道德纯粹而对他人的道德不高也能宽容。说明君子要有容人的雅量,不可以自己的标准衡量一切人。