I’m not a one-man show.

变老最好的事情是，你不会失去你曾经经历过的所有其他年龄段。

So what I want to argue for is not that we should give up on our ideas of success, but we should make sure that they are our own. We should focus in on our ideas, and make sure that we own them; that we are truly the authors of our own ambitions. Because it's bad enough not getting what you want, but it's even worse to have an idea of what it is you want, and find out, at the end of the journey, that it isn't, in fact, what you wanted all along.

一个好的决策是基于现有最佳信息，并在清楚理解所涉及的权衡后做出的。

译文：注重小节的人不能成就大的威名，不忍受小的耻辱的人不能建立美名。