人们不讲道理、思想谬误、自我中心，不管怎样，还是爱他们；如果你友善，人们会说你自私自利、别有用心，不管怎样，还是要友善；如果你成功以后，身边尽是假的朋友和真的敌人，不管怎样，还是要成功；你所做的善事明天就会被遗忘，不管怎样，还是要做善事；诚实与坦率使你容易受到欺骗和伤害，不管怎样，还是要诚实与坦率；人都会同情弱者，却只追随赢家，不管怎样，还是要为一些弱者奋斗；你耗费数年所建设的可能毁于一旦，不管怎样，还是要建设；如果你找到了平静和幸福，人们可能会嫉妒你，不管怎样，还是要快乐；人们确实需要帮助，然而如果你帮助他们，却可能遭到攻击，不管怎样，还是要帮助；将你所拥有最好的东西献给世界，可能永远都不够，不管怎样，还是要将最好的东西付出！你看，说到底，它是你和上帝之间的事，这决不是你和他人之间的事。

And when you’re down in the hole， when that moment comes， it’s really okay to feel bad for a little while. Give yourself time to mourn what you think you may have lost but then here’s the key， learn from every mistake because every experience， encounter， and particularly your mistakes are there to teach you and force you into being more who you are. And then figure out what is the next right move.

尝试过，失败过。没关系，再尝试。再失败，失败也是一种进步！

The key to sustainable growth is to continuously improve and adapt to changing circumstances.