"The great advantage of being a writer is that you can spy on people. You're there, listening to every word, but part of you is observing. Everything is useful to a writer, every scrap, even the longest and most boring of luncheon parties."

顺从天意的**是以义服人的**，违反天意的**是以力服人的**。 

The artwork is complete when the viewer brings their own interpretation to it.

I don't compete with anyone but myself.

释义：君子在面对挫折、困难的时候，应该反躬自问，修养品德。蹇（jiǎn），多指行动迟缓、困苦、不顺利的意思。