没有现实的恐惧，文字便无法打动人心。

人生太短，莫与庸者闲逛。

The only way to have a friend is to be one.

有时候遇到急切之下弄不明白的事情，应当适当宽缓一下，或许自然而然就真相大白了，不要操之过急，那样会使当事人十分恼怒，反而增加了事情的复杂性；有的人急切之下任你怎么劝都不听从，不妨随他的便，不去劝他，他或许自己慢慢就会悔悟，不必要采用强制手段逼迫他听从，那样只能激发他的逆反心理，使他更加冥顽不化。

Though love seems the fastest of all growths, it is really the slowest. No man or woman knows what perfect love is, until they have been married a quarter of a century.

We do not own our memories; they own us.