Those who do not have power over the story that dominates their lives, the power to retell it, rethink it, deconstruct it, joke about it, and change it as they change, truly are powerless, because they cannot think new thoughts.

False happiness renders men stern and proud， and that happiness is never communicated. True happiness renders them kind and sensible， and that happiness is always shared.

我非常相信用清单来解决难题。你需要在你面前得到所有可能和不可能的答案；否则很容易错过一些重要的东西。