A long habit of not thinking a thing wrong gives it a superficial appearance of being right.

And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. Psychoanalysis has been drumming home this message for about 80 years. No one's quite listening hard enough, but I very much believe it's true.

选择理论忽略了我们所知道的关于人类的大部分知识。

【译文】每天都学习一些自己所没有的知识、技能或所不懂的道理，每月都不忘记所学会的东西，这样就可以称为好学的人了。