他看她的方式让她觉得自己是房间里唯一的人。

Rule of 7 in research. You can find out anything if you are willing to go seven levels. If the first source you ask doesn’t know， ask them who you should ask next， and so on down the line. If you are willing to go to the 7th source， you’ll almost always get your answer.

成功不在于目的地，而在于旅程。

"We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are."