常规不是关于僵化；它是关于孩子的安全感和可预测性。

The battle of life is already half won by the young man who is brought personally in contact with high officials; and the great aim of every boy should be to do something beyond the sphere of his duties--something which attracts the attention of those who over him.

一个善待别人的人，别人也会善待你。《孟子》中也说“爱人者，人恒爱之；敬人者，人恒敬之”，爱别人的人，别人也会爱他；尊敬别人的人，别人也会尊敬他。

小的迷惑会改变人的方向，大的迷惑会改变人的本性。

"The most important thing is to stay disciplined."