The hardest person to forgive is always yourself.

Happiness in this world, when it comes, comes incidentally. Make it the objet of pursuit, and it leads us a wild-goose chase, and is never attained. Follow some other object, and very possibly we may find that we have cought happiness without dreaming of it.

【译文】 孔子说：“君子通晓道义，小人通晓私利。”

你可以通过一个人的回答来判断他是否聪明。你可以通过一个人的问题来判断他是否明智。

最重要的是，尊重自己。