出自北齐·颜之推《颜氏家训·教子》。慈，慈爱。则，那么。畏慎，畏惧、谨慎。矣，句末语气助词。父母有威严也有慈爱，那么子女就会畏惧、谨慎而生孝顺之心。孝子是靠严格而慈祥的方法培养出来的，不是一味溺爱就能教育出来的。

Identity capital is our collection of personal assets. It is the repertoire of individual resources that we assemble over time. These are the investments we make in ourselves, the things we do well enough, or long enough, that they become a part of who we are.

过去是一个异国他乡；他们做事的方式不同。