Ignore what others may be thinking of you， because they aren’t.

我四十而立之时，总觉得，当回顾我的一生，我会看到一系列的决定，一些是我仔细思考后作出的，一些是我无意而为的，还有很多是我根本无法掌控的。

The state of nature has a law of nature to govern it, which obliges every one: and reason, which is that law, teaches all mankind, who will but consult it, that being all equal and independent, no one ought to harm another in his life, health, liberty, or possessions.