如果我们了解别人的想法就会知道没有人是普通的，每个人都至少值得大家起来为他鼓一次掌。

Maybe if we knew what other people were thinking we'd know that no one’s ordinary.And we all deserve a standing ovation at least once in our lives.

R.J.帕拉西奥

唯一不变的是变的本身。

赫拉克利特

贪婪和恐惧都会影响人的判断力，格雷厄姆其实不是很热衷于赚钱，和许多人相比，他受的情绪影响较小。

沃尔特·施洛斯

Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.

无论是赏心悦目的事物，还是实实在在的东西，我们从中获取幸福的关键似乎取决于这样一个事实，那就是我们必须首先满足自己情感或心理上的一些更为重要的需求，诸如对理解、爱、宣泄和尊重的需求。《旅行的艺术》

阿兰·德波顿

1It’s funny. I think a lot of people, a lot of writers, try to take shortcuts in their assignments and just regurgitate what somebody else may have written, you know, instead of truly saying what’s going on,. Kobe says. .I’m no different than anybody. Basketball to me, it’s a game that I want to try to be the best at, try to work at as much as possible. But I understand it’s a game. But I’m extremely outgoing. People say, ‘He’s quiet’ and all that stuff. That’s crazy. They obviously don’t know me. So, I mean, people that know me and people that seen me interact, stuff like that, I’m completely opposite of what they read. And a lot of people actually tell me that. They’ll say, ‘Man, you’re nothing like I thought you were.’

这太有意思了。我想很多人，很多作家，老是想尽办法在他们的写作任务中反复其他人可能已经写过的东西，而不是真实记录正在发生的一些事情。科比说，我跟其他人没什么差别。篮球对于我来说，是一场我要尽可能努力做到最好的比赛。而我理解那是一场比赛。我是很外向的。人们说我很寡言，那简直胡说。他们显然就不了解我嘛。因此，那些了解我，跟我交流的人知道我跟那些报道中的完全不一样。事实上很多人也会这样跟我说,‘你跟我想象中的完全不同。